Dare you admit that he has a secret power to meet women that you don’t? I could be just like him and get girls too, if I wanted to. Right. Okay so we were just kids then, stupid kids, so what? Well, it begins to matter a lot a few years later when every one of your friends fumbles and feels his way into some kind of relationship, but you’re still left standing out in the cold. Soon, panic starts to set in. What the hell is wrong with me?… you begin to think.
Why is it that everyone else seems to be able to figure out how this making out thing works, and I still can’t get the courage up to even ask one girl out on a damn date? And like a man with a tiger outside his gate, Not only couldn’t relax but he couldn’t relate…
Your social ineptitude begins to become a real stone in your shoe, an obsession. There must be a way to overcome this fear of being rejected so that you can “become normal” like everyone else. But it isn’t easy. Like quicksand, your fear draws you down ever deeper the more you struggle against it.
Why? Because it isn’t the mere fear of interacting with women that you have… something which can be overcome with a courageous burst of willpower. What is really suffocating your social life is more akin to a phobia that finds its source in a complex webwork of shame and shaming events that may have either happened to you suddenly in a traumatic event, or (more insidiously) built up in a very subtle and gradual fashion that was so far beneath your radar screen that you never knew what hit you.
About Michael Pilinski
Michael Pilinski is the author of two highly acclaimed books in the dating market, ‘Without Embarrassment’ and his follow-up masterpiece ‘She’s Yours For The Taking’. The focus of Without Embarrassment centers around helping guys overcome their oversized fear of being rejected by women. We’re talking about the sort of paralyzing fear that can completely shut down and stifle any chance of having a normal social life and romantic relations.
This fear of rejection was the problem that Mike personally suffered from while growing up — which ultimately left him barren of any social life whatsoever by the age of 25. During those dark days he somehow found a way to turn things around… literally just boot-strapping himself up out of the social gutter. Step-by-step he made small but vital breakthroughs… asking a girl out, going on a date, trying for a kiss.
Fighting his way through the self-hatred and endless recriminations that followed every rejection, Mike finally made it beyond the prison of toxically-shamed affection needs to ultimately overcome an incredible case of rejection phobia. Repeatedly failing at the dating game can cause a man to develop bad social habits or odd public behaviors which make him unappealing and unattractive to women.
This keeps him locked in a deadly, never-ending cycle of failure, rejection and withdrawal that can last for a lifetime if not challenged and interrupted. Mike understands this and his books lay out a plan for turning a guy’s luck around women immediately. He shares the insights, solutions and work-arounds that he managed to develop on his own to eliminate the types of typical problems that shy and introverted men everywhere have had to deal with in desperate silence for so long.
Mr. Pilinski’s careful comprehension and treatment of these deeply unsettling issues are what makes his work stand out among the sea of boring, repetitious, copy-cat advice in the dating field. You’ll also enjoy Mike’s humorous and irreverent writing style. You’ll laugh, cry, pound the wall… but most of all thrill to a journey of self-discovery that you will never soon forget. –This text refers to the paperback edition.
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