Lola Jean – Body Bondage: 6 Erotic Ties To Get You Started
Your Struggles, Solved
Body bondage creates a unique, intimate connection without extra equipment. It’s the perfect blend of physical control and emotional vulnerability that can transform your intimate experiences.
You’re likely facing:
- Hesitation About Technical Skills – You’re unsure how to use your body effectively to create pleasurable, secure holds without causing discomfort.
- Communication Barriers – Finding the right words to express desires or establish boundaries during intimate bondage moments feels awkward or difficult.
- Safety Concerns – You worry about applying too much pressure or accidentally causing discomfort when trying body bondage techniques.
This course teaches you six versatile body bondage techniques that create intimate connection without any equipment. You’ll learn proper grips, pressure control, and essential communication strategies that enhance trust. The practical demonstrations show exactly how to adapt each technique to different body types, transforming hesitation into confident, playful exploration.
What You Will Learn In Body Bondage: 6 Erotic Ties To Get You Started
“Body bondage creates an intimate power exchange using just yourselves—transforming hesitation into confident exploration that deepens connection and intensifies pleasure.”
— Lola Jean, Body Bondage Expert
Technical Mastery & Safety
- Six Versatile Body Bondage Techniques – Master fundamental holds that require no equipment, adaptable to different body types and comfort levels.
- Precision Grip & Pressure Control – Learn exact hand placements and pressure application to create secure, pleasurable restraint without discomfort.
Communication & Consent
- Boundary Setting Language – Develop a comfortable vocabulary for expressing desires and limits before and during intimate bondage play.
- Non-Verbal Check-In Methods – Master subtle techniques to monitor your partner’s comfort and pleasure without breaking the intimate mood.
Connection Enhancement
- Power Exchange Dynamics – Understand the emotional aspects of control and surrender that deepen intimacy during body bondage experiences.
- Position Transitions – Flow naturally between different holds and positions, maintaining connection while exploring new sensations together.
By the end of this course, you’ll confidently create intense, intimate moments using just your bodies—transforming technical hesitation into playful exploration that deepens your connection.
Lessons and Classes
Total length:60-90 min
- Welcome to Body Bondage
- Communication & Safety
- The 5 Motivations of Body Bondage
- Grips
- Bearhug
- School Person Pin
- Scissors & Leg-Holds
- Side Control
- Creating a Frame for Bottoms
- Lower Body Variations
- Closing Words
Your Instructor
Lola Jean
Sex Educator & Dominatrix
Lola Jean is an internationally recognized sex educator and professional dominatrix based in New York City who specializes in transforming intimidating practices into accessible techniques. With years of experience teaching physical control dynamics, she’s trained over 500 couples in her “Wrestling for Lovers” program and has been featured in The New York Times, Vice, and Men’s Health for her expertise in body bondage and power exchange.
Lola discovered that vulnerability is the true gateway to sexual exploration while developing her own practice of physical restraint techniques. Through personal experimentation, she realized that many couples desired the intimacy of bondage without the equipment barriers. This revelation led her to develop a “no frills” approach to body bondage that focuses on the emotional connection as much as the physical technique—creating a framework that transforms hesitation into confidence and awkwardness into playful exploration.
Using her signature “Baby Bear Play” framework, Lola teaches body bondage through a trauma-informed lens that balances control with tenderness. She combines clear technical instruction with emotional intelligence, showing you exactly where to place hands and how to communicate boundaries effectively. This practical, in-the-trenches approach ensures you master not just the physical holds but the art of building trust during vulnerable moments.
About Beducated
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