Jim Benson – Multi Orgasmic Lover

Hey guys: Would you like to feel relaxed and confident in bed, with the ability to ride the waves of sensation and pleasure with your lover — knowing you are in the driver’s seat and in control of your own body’s response?

How about knowing that you could have multiple, non-ejaculatory orgasms at will during sex, and that her pleasure was multiplied as well — because it was linked to yours?

Become a multi-orgasmic lover!Being a great lover is a gift a few men are born with. The rest of us can learn! And the Multi-Orgasmic Lover Training for Men will show you how.

The Multi Orgasmic Lover Training is an easy-to-follow, step-by-step program for guys who want to change their sex lives positively and permanently. In this program, I offer you new ways for you to think about your relationship to sex, plus I give you helpful tools that you can put to use immediately. There are ten modules in the program — containing over eight hours of audio and over an hour of video — that you can follow at your own pace.

Men who complete the program report:

• Feeling more pleasure throughout their bodies during sex
• Greater ejaculatory control
• Deeper emotional connection to their partners
• Healing of shame and sexual wounding
• Greater connection to their “animal body”
• Greater confidence in and out of the bedroom
• Multiorgasmic experiences
• It is, in short, a total overhaul of your sex life!

Who Benefits?

The Multi-Orgasmic Lover Training is not for everyone, but it does meet the needs of a wide range of guys. Here’s a list of the kinds of men the program has helped.

Men who:

• Ejaculate earlier than they’d like
• Want to experience more sensation and pleasure during sex
• Feel anxious or embarrassed about their sexual “performance”
• Have started to experience multiple orgasms or sex without ejaculation and want more support and guidance
• Would like an honest, real place to learn about sex without shame or comparison
• Have experienced sexual wounding and are ready to embody their sexual power
• Are challenged by monogamy and want to recharge their love life
• Are starting to date again after a divorce or dry period

The most important thing to know is that you can change the way you have sex. And if you are willing to commit to the program and complete the modules, I guarantee you can become the lover you’ve wanted to be.

Here’s an outline of the training program to become a multiorgasmic man:

Module 1: The Six Core Principles

Module 1 is all about getting you prepared for the journey you’re about to embark on. You’ll get a brief glimpse into what the rest of the program is about, then we’ll jump straight in.

In this module, you’ll learn:

• How doing these practices will impact every aspect of your life. (Note: It’s not just in the bedroom!)
• The little-known path to separating ejaculation from orgasm.
• Full-body pleasure vs. genital based pleasure. You’ll learn why most men only experience a fraction of the pleasure they could feel, and how you can change that.
• How to find your unique path to sexual mastery. Being great in the bedroom looks very different for everyone!

Module 2: Dissolving Sexual Shame

Sexual shame is a big deal. It contributes to both erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. It causes men to be nervous in bed, to hold back their masculinity, to shield their heart and to block connection.

Most men, and in fact most human beings have some form of sexual shame. It’s probably having more impact on your sex life than you realize. Clearing these blocks early will lay a solid foundation for the rest of the program.

In this module, you’ll learn:

• The roots of sexual shame and how sexual shame can affect your bedroom experience.
• The difference between healthy shame and toxic shame (and what to do about it).
• The five steps to healing sexual shame and breaking out of unhealthy relationship patterns.
• What to do about sexual shame right now, without having to go to therapy for 10 years.

Module 3: Relaxation and Sex

Module 3 is about physical and mental relaxation. You’ll learn how to deeply relax into an erotic experience. You’ll learn to let go of fear, tension and blocks that keep you from fully experiencing all the pleasure available to you in the bedroom.

This module is highly experiential. You’ll learn the theory behind relaxation, while doing the techniques for yourself, live as you listen to the audio.

In this module, you’ll learn:

• Why relaxation is absolutely key to lasting longer in bed.
• How one simple shift in mindset before having sex can have you lasting twice as long in bed.
• Why being “wired to achieve” in bed, as most men are, is detrimental to relaxation and to having great sex. And how to relax, even when you’re trying to be “good in bed.”
• A powerful breathing technique to relax your mind, as well as relax the muscles that impact ejaculation.

Module 4: Sexual Confidence

Having sexual confidence will improve your sex life in a ton of different ways. Your woman will be more attracted to you. You’ll feel more powerful and be able to use that sense of power to bring more raw “fuck energy” to your lovemaking. Your woman will feel safer in letting go and surrendering to you.

In this module, you’ll learn:

• What exactly is sexual confidence? How is sexual confidence created? We’ll deconstruct sexual confidence, so you can create it deliberately, at will.
• The difference between internal and external confidence.
• How to feel more sexually confident by knowing how to powerfully ask for what you want in bed.
• A 15-minute guided visualization that greatly increases your confidence and your body’s orgasmic capacity.

Module 5: Sexual Training Q&A

By this point in the program, you probably have some questions. Maybe you’ve run into a challenge or two, or you’re experiencing sensations or emotions that you’re not used to. Perhaps you’ve had an unusual experience and you’re wondering if that’s uncommon. In this module, we’ll answer the most common questions guys have when going through this program, as well as proactively address some challenges you might face.

In this module, you’ll learn:

• Getting over the “hump.” Most early ejaculators have the most trouble for the first 2 to 10 minutes. After the 20-minute mark, most early ejaculation issues disappear.
• What to do if you’re a late ejaculator – including how to amplify and increase the pleasure you’re feeling.
• How to train your PC muscle at this point in the program.
• Additional practices you can do to improve the flow of orgasmic energy.

Module 6: The Heart and Sex Link

Module 6 is about the all-important connection between your heart and your genitals. You’ll learn about the “heartgasm,” one of the most powerful kinds of orgasms you can experience.

In this module, you’ll learn:

• How to connect your genitals to your heart so you can fully ravish your woman.
• How to expand your orgasm, so you feel pleasure in every part of your body.
• The two “camps” men tend to fall into when being in bed – Camp Wimpy and Camp Bully – and how to get the best of both worlds.
• Learn to have full-body sex.
• How to use the ME breath with your heart.

Module 7: Your Wild Animal and The Upper Limit

How expressive are you in bed? Do you fully let your pleasure out and share it with your partner? Or do you keep it to yourself? Are you self-expressed in bed, or are you holding back? Sound can be a tool not just for expressing pleasure, but for actually increasing the strength of your orgasms. In fact, some men can have an orgasm just from using sound.

In this module, you’ll learn:

• The Key Sound and Crazy Throat practices. These practices will help you become more expressive using sound, as well as help you feel more pleasure using sound, right away.
• How to connect deeper with your wants, needs and desires. And how to express those to your partner!
• The link between sound and letting out your wild side.
• Round 2 of sexual shame: This time, we’ll explore shame in the context of helping you have full sexual expression and breaking through social stigmas.

Module 8: Physical, Emotional and Mental Surrender

In this module you’ll learn how to use the ME Breath as a diagnostic tool in discovering your blocks to full-body orgasm. You’ll also learn about the concept of “surrender” – both in this module and the next one. In this module we’ll talk about surrendering at three levels: Physical, emotional, and mental. Plus practical ways you can learn to let go and let more pleasure flow.

In this module, you’ll learn:

• The three levels of surrender, how each is different and how each can impact your love life.
• How to address resistance to surrendering.
• Self-love and its effect on your ability to surrender.
• Why surrender is so attractive to women – not just on a “chemical” level, but on a very deep and emotional level.
• Brain orgasms: What they are and how you can experience them.

Module 9: Exploring the Backyard

The butt and the anus are very sensitive areas of both men and women’s bodies. They can add incredible sensations to your bedroom experience. They’re also highly emotionally charged areas. When playing with this area, feelings of taboo and shame often arise, leading to opportunities for surrender.

In this module, you’ll learn:

• Prostate stimulation: How it works, what it feels like and how to use it to add a whole new dimension of pleasure to your lovemaking.
• Many practical tips for exploring this region, even if you’re completely new to it.
• How to ease into playing with the butt – slowly, without physical or emotional injuries.
• Exercises you can do alone that can help you explore new sensations.

Module 10: Integrating This Program

Congratulations! You’ve completed the Multi-Orgasmic Lover training.

By now, your capacity to experience pleasure in bed will be vastly expanded. You’ll be able to relax more deeply, and you may have found many of your old sexual blocks melt away. You’ll find yourself lasting longer in bed, feeling more connection with your partner and having more access to your power. (In fact, over 90% of men who have completed this program report that they have experienced those things!)

In this final module, we’ll talk about integrating what you learned in this program into your life, as well as bringing a partner into your practices. We’ll talk about specific ways to use what you learned in lovemaking, and where to go after you finish this program.

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