David DeAngelo – Meeting Women In Bars And Clubs
“Here’s The True Story Of How I Went From Not Even Being Able To TALK To A Girl In A Nightclub To Literally Being Able To Go To Any Bar Or Club AnytimeAnd Meet As Many Beautiful Women And Get As Many Dates As I Want…”
“If You Learn The Simple Secrets I’m About To Reveal, You Can Confidently Go To A Bar Or Club, Approach The Most Attractive Women, And Walk Out With More Phone Numbers And Dates Than You Can Handle…”
I’m going to describe three scenarios. As you read them, I want you to pay careful attention. Let’s see if you’ve ever been in any of them:
You’re out at a nice place having a drink, and you notice a woman that’s very attractive. You make eye contact with her. For a second, you feel like you “have a chance” with her. She looks again. You feel the feeling again. But you don’t know how to start the conversation. She’s probably been approached by a dozen drunk guys already… you wonder what you could possibly say to her to get her attention and have even a CHANCE with her. By the time you figure out what to say and work up the courage to talk to her, you look back over and she’s gone.
Or talking to a different guy. Later that night you think back to that moment, realize that you had nothing to lose by talking to her, and mentally beat yourself up for not just walking over and talking to her. In your mind you resolve to just DO IT next time… but you still feel a sense of loss because you didn’t talk to THAT girl. She’s gone. And you’ll never get that chance again. Wouldn’t it have been great if you had a “lock and load” approach and system to start a conversation, create some “chemistry”, and get a phone number quickly when one of these situations comes up?
You know a guy. He might be a past or present friend… or a friend of a friend. He’s not a rich guy. He’s not a handsome guy. He’s not even a particularly smart guy. But what he lacks in money, looks, and intelligence he makes up for with his ability to meet women. Every time you’ve been out with him at a bar or club, he ALWAYS meets a girl. Or girls. Plural. And it just doesn’t make any sense.
Somehow he just UNDERSTANDS the bar and club environment… and how to meet women when he’s there. You and all the other guys work to get scraps, while he takes what he wants. Wouldn’t it be great to know what he’s doing, and be able to do it yourself?
You’ve been to enough bars and clubs to see the pattern. Attractive women who obviously have NO problem getting attention from men… they fix themselves up, put on the sexiest clothes, and literally look like they’ve gotten themselves ready for a glamour photo shoot… just to go out for the evening. They carry themselves in a way that says “I am a powerful sexy woman, and this sexy face and body can get me anything I want.” You KNOW that they can have any guy they want.
You know that every guy is looking at them and drooling. But you ALSO know that she’s just a woman. And you know that if you only knew HOW to do it, you could get her attention and connect with her. What would it be worth to you to know how to break through her “beauty power barrier,” start a conversation, and get a date with her?
Now, as you were reading those scenarios you might have been wondering how I could describe situations you’ve been in so perfectly. The answer, of course, is that I’ve LIVED those situations over and over and over…
If you’ve checked out my newsletters or my dating products, then you already know that I’ve spent a long time working to figure out exactly how guys can approach and meet women, spark attraction, and get dates. Well, part of that education was “in the field”… I spent a lot of time learning and testing every trick, technique, and idea I learned… and I chose the best place in the world to do it: The bar and club scene.
Why did I choose bars and clubs as my “test zone?”
For two simple reasons:
- Because there is nowhere you can go in the world that has a greater concentration of beautiful, single, available women than bars and clubs.
- Because I spent a lot of time in the past inside bars and clubs WANTING to meet women… but never being able to actually do it. And it was a PERSONAL CHALLENGE to me to master this environment.
The Story Of How I Learned What Works To Meet Women In Bars And Clubs
Here’s something you might not know about me… I’m a musician. I’m not a rock star or anything (although I do admit that I wanted to be one when I was younger)… but I love great music. Years ago, my best friend and I used to go out a lot a lot to watch live bands play in bars and clubs. While I was at these places watching the bands, I would always notice how many attractive WOMEN were in these places.
The only problem? I had NO FRICKIN’ IDEA how to meet these women.
I’m talking CLUELESS.
And I’ll tell you another thing… it SUCKED. The one thing I wanted most was all around me. I could literally reach out and touch it… or could I?
Well, if you’ve been in this situation (and I know you have), then you know how it feels to be surrounded by beautiful women… but not have any idea how to MEET and get to know them.
This experience (a painful one, I might add) taught me a valuable lesson:
Just like any other thing in life that seems “too good to be true,” the bar and club scene is challenging.
For one, the most attractive women that go out to these places get a LOT of attention. In fact, attractive women are the “rock stars” and “celebrities” of the bar and club scene. They get so much attention from men that they’ve developed protection mechanisms to make sure that “regular” guys don’t even get to TALK to them… nevermind get phone numbers and dates.
So, when I reached the point in my life where I decided that I needed to learn how to become more successful with women and dating, the bar and club scene was a “natural challenge” that I wanted to take on… and MASTER.
So I made it a point to try EVERY technique that I learned… in the real world… and I chose bars and clubs as my “practice environment.” I learned a few incredibly valuable lessons. Here are a few of them…
The 3 Deadly Mistakes “Regular” Guys Make In Bars & Nightclubs That GUARANTEE That They’ll Meet No Women, Get No Dates, And Definitely Go Home Alone…
After several years of “in the trenches” research, I’ve discovered that there are 3 deadly mistakes almost ALL men make when trying to meet women in bars and nightclubs that make it FAR EASIER for the pros to succeed.
As you read through them, ask yourself if YOU have ever been guilty of committing one of these mistakes…
>> Mistake #1: Hoping Something Is Going To Happen On It’s Own… Or That She Is Going To Do The Work
The sad truth is that most guys who go to bars and nightclubs don’t really TRY to meet women at all.
What do they do instead?
- Stare at a woman they want from afar… imagining something happening between them… but never actually doing anything
- Linger around the areas she’s hanging out in… hoping they’ll “bump into her” and hoping that she’ll start a conversation… or that the chance will “come up”
- Think up reasons NOT to approach her… like telling themselves, “she’s probably taken…” or “she probably wouldn’t be interested in me…”
Have YOU ever been guilty of one of these things?
>> Mistake #2: Setting Off A Woman’s “Average Alert”
Did you know that women in bars and nightclubs have a specific set of signals they look for when deciding whether or not to reject a man?
Think about it…
When an attractive woman goes to a bar or a club, she gets approached by A LOT of men.
She needs a way to disqualify “regular” guys FAST… so when the man she does want comes along she is ready to make a move.
And because they get hit on so many times… women have this down to a science.
Often the decision is made BEFORE YOU EVEN OPEN YOUR MOUTH.
This is why “regular” guys often feel like the women who go to nightclubs are there to REJECT men instead of meet them…
The truth is that she is there to reject AVERAGE MEN.
If you do ANYTHING that signals you might be “average…” she’ll either give you “attitude…” or simply ignore you.
This is simply time management on her part… so don’t take it personally.
Instead, learn how NOT to set off her “average alert…” and instead how to communicate to her that you are a guy she MUST KNOW from the moment she lays eyes on you.
By the way, here are 2 simple ways you can grab a woman’s attention IMMEDIATELY:
- Lean Back – When “regular” guys approach a woman, they have a tendency to lean in. This subtle body language clue leads a woman think a man is “needy.” Instead, lean back very slightly when you approach a woman. You’ll distinguish yourself from other men… AND subtly signal HER to come towards YOU.
- Be The First To End The Interaction – “Regular” guys will keep talking to a woman as long as they can. When you are the first to end the interaction you separate yourself from the rest by coming across as an interesting challenge. You can always start up the conversation with her again at a later time… and when you do she’ll be excited to hear from you.
In just a moment I’ll show you how you can learn several more ways to spark attraction in a woman fast…
>> Mistake #3: Not “Stacking The Deck” In Your Favor
Most “regular guys” never realize there are things they can do to create opportunities to meet women in a bar before you even walk in… and ways to triple your chances of ending up with an attractive woman or two later.
Guys who understand the bar and club scene are ahead of the game before YOU even start.
Often times they’ll SHOW UP with several of the hottest women in the place…
These women will introduce the guy to other women… who will introduce them to more and more (it’s actually simple to make this happen when you know the secret).
These guy have figured out ways to get the bar staff and promoters to introduce them to women… and ways to get women to come up and approach THEM.
Of course they also know how to get invites to the hottest spots to begin with – grand openings of new restaurants and bars… anniversary parties… industry parties and special events… and other places where beautiful women far outnumber the men… not to mention “after- parties” so exclusive that the mere mention of where you’re going will have women BEGGING to come along…
These guys do 20% of the work that “regular” guys do… and end up with 80% of the women (which includes 100% of the ATTRACTIVE women).
The good news is that YOU can learn to do all of these things… and I’d like to show you how.
How To Meet Women In Any Bar Or Nightclub You Enter And Make The Women Want You And Only YOU
If you’re ready to learn the secrets of success in the bar and nightclub scene… and reap the rewards of one of the greatest sources of beautiful women the world has to offer… I have some great news for you…
I’ve taken all of the lessons I learned and systems I developed during my “training” in bars and nightclubs, and I’ve put together a one-of-a-kind, “tell all” course that will show you how to meet women in any bar or club… anytime.
In this program you’ll learn DOZENS and DOZENS of step-by-step strategies and techniques for approaching women and starting conversations, making women choose YOU over other men, how to get “in” with the very hottest women in a bar or a club, how to get phone numbers and email addresses from women who don’t normally give them out, and REAL, proven ways to get a woman to ASK YOU to come back to your place at the end of the night.
And that’s just the tip of the iceberg. Here are a few more of the exciting secrets you’ll learn in this program:
- Why some guys are “naturally” good with women from birth… and a step-by-step plan to quickly take you to their level of success
- 2 crucial secrets most men never think of that will noticeably improve any guy’s game overnight
- The hard fact of the bar and nightclub scene that RUINS most guys before they start… and how to flip it around and use it to your advantage
- NEWSFLASH: The 2 biggest secrets of success in bars and nightclubs happen BEFORE and AFTER you show up… here’s what they are, and how they’ll give you a “rock star” level of success
- The secret to social networking that will make you “the man” at the club and TRIPLE your opportunities to meet women
- How to recognize what’s REALLY holding you back from success (including the things your friends are too embarrassed to mention)
- The Power Of Information – How to use “what you know” and “who you know” to get women to throw themselves at you… even if you’re a newbie to the social scene
- The one easy thing you can do at the beginning of the night that guarantees you’ll have women back at your place at the end of the night
- How to meet and befriend the 5 types of people you must know to REALLY dominate the bar and club scene
- A 2 minute exercise you can use to put together your ideal “dream team” of friends to help you meet women
- A simple “mind shift” that will make you more attractive to women in bars and clubs instantly… even if you change nothing else in your game
- The “once a week” trick to network your entire town and be the guy that everyone wants to know
- A smooth and easy way to get her back to your place
- SURPRISE! The single most important social activity in a bar IS NOT starting conversations with women… but plenty of them will start conversations with you when you master this…
- Your own personal “social psychic” – How to befriend the one person who always knows about the hottest parties and events
- A 12 step plan to increase your success with women in bars and nightclubs by 619%! (It’s taken me several years to come up with this method, and I can’t wait to share it with you)
- How to break through a woman’s “bar persona” and comfortably get her to open up to you… even if she’s already rejected every other guy in the club
- A checklist of things you must NEVER do if you want to be successful at approaching women (Any one of these common mistakes will get you shot down instantly)
- How to integrate the styles and techniques of the best in a way that’s completely congruent to your personality
- My 5 personal favorite ways to get her phone number and email address…every time (several of which I’ve never shared before anywhere)
- The secret psychological trick every natural does to make a woman feel completely comfortable about going home with you
- The 2 things “older” guys must do differently in order to be successful in bars and clubs
- An easy way to skip right pastthe “date” and get straight to the fun stuff!
The Best In The World Spill Their Secrets
What REALLY makes this program great are the seasoned “pros” that came out to share their closely guarded secrets for success in some of the toughest venues in the country…
These are the guys who are out there living it every night… I can’t tell you how much I’ve learned from them over the years… and I know you will do the same.
If you’re looking for cutesy, “men’s magazine” style advice… you won’t find it here.
But if you want the REAL… the GENUINE… the “battle-tested” strategies that give these guys an UNFAIR advantage night in and night out… get ready to be amazed…
Meet And Learn From Guys That I Consider To Be The Best In The WORLD At Meeting Women In Bars And Clubs
When I set out to create this program, I decided that I needed to bring in the BIG GUNS. The first thing I did was ask a good friend of mine to teach almost half of the program with me.
This guy successfully raised himself from TOTAL FAILURE with women to becoming THE KING of the entire social scene of his city (which happens to be one of the biggest in the U.S.).
The honest truth is that he’s BETTER than me in the bar and club environment. And we created a “double barrel” model to teach you the techniques that the “naturals” use to attract and meet women in bars and clubs.
My friend has developed countless easy ways to “stack the deck” and meet BOATLOADS of beautiful women with little or no work.
He’s also developed some KILLER strategies for getting “past the velvet ropes” and into the hottest venues in the country… without paying a cover charge or waiting in line.
He shared the stage with me for several hours… and revealed DOZENS and DOZENS of proven strategies and techniques that any guy can start using IMMEDIATELY… no experience required.
Get ready to take some SERIOUS notes… because you’ve never heard anythinglike this before.
Here is just a small sample of what we taught:
- A proven, step-by-step system for meeting women in nightclubs that causes every woman in the place to feel attracted to you… and gives you your pick at the end of the night!
- 7 valuable secrets that save you years of trial and error and shoot you up to “expert” level immediately… even if you’ve never set foot in a bar or nightclub before
- A simple body language trick that lets women know you’re different from every other guy in the room
- The 2 biggest mistakes men make in bars and nightclubs… and what you can do to take advantage of them
- What the nightclub really looks like through her eyes (when you learn this you’ll know exactly how to make a lasting impression with her)
- A secret to making ANY “line” work… even if she’s heard it 100 times before
- A simple secret that quadruples the effectiveness of any line or technique you try on her
- How to come up with killer opening lines on the fly… even if you’re a novice at approaching women
- The 8 traits that all naturals possess that “regular” guys don’t (These are the REAL reasons why they never go home alone)
- How to create a distinctive presence inside the nightclub that draws women
- A simple but powerful exercise to overcome your anxiety and explode on the scene with a POWER and INTENSITY everyone will notice
- The 6 things you can do to “take over” any bar or nightclub (You’ll get more attention than any manager, bartender, or promoter in the place!)
- The deadly mistake nearly ALL “regular” guys make that opens the door for any “natural” to come along and steal their woman
- “WUSS-DAR” – The one thing that causes women to disqualify 90% of the guys in the bar before they even open their mouths (If you’ve ever been shot done before, there’s a good chance you did this…)
- A simple trick that tells you exactly when to “go for it” with a woman… whether you want to get her number, a kiss, or beyond
- The secret of why naturals have women chasing them and begging for their attention… and how to make yourself the “carrot” that women pursue all night long
- The crucial thing that all naturals do AT THE VERY BEGINNING to trigger that powerful feeling in a woman that says “I have to have him”
- The 5 most important things you must do when you meet a woman in a bar (FACT: Do these correctly and she will feel MASSIVE attraction for you… even if she already has a man)
- A secret trick – stolen from the naturals – that eliminates ALL anxiety and instantly gives you the BRASS BALLS you need to make your move
- “The Power of the Takeaway” – A way to slowly build up intense sexual tension inside of her that practically forces her to make a move on you
- The 4 body language tricks that subconsciously cause her to lean on you
- A system that helps you meet the most amount of women in the least amount of time… with little to no work on your part!
- A trick to getting in with her friends that will actually have them HELPING YOU get to know her!
- A fantastic line for smoothly and easily meeting girls who are sitting at a table
- The childhood game you can use meet any woman anywhere without saying a word (Possibly the easiest and most effective approach of all time)
- 7 ways to flirt with her that she’s never seen before and will have her laughing hysterically
- A way to get a woman you’ve just met to run up to you and scream your nameevery time she sees you (You HAVE GOT to see this!)
- The Lazy Man’s Success Secret – How to position yourself in a bar or nightclub so women come to you all night long
- The mistake that it is ok to make on a “date”… but you must NEVER make in a bar or a nightclub
- The conversation topic even some naturals forget to avoid that kills attraction FAST
- The 6 types of conversation that it’s ok to have with a woman (If it’s not on this list, change the subject IMMEDIATELY)
- A life-saving line that turns any boring conversation into a fun and excitinginteraction
- 2 fun games you can play with a woman that naturally create the type of conversation that leads to attraction
- How to find out where she lives and what she does without coming off like a boring wuss-bag
- 5 secrets of eye contact that powerfully communicate sexuality and masculine power to women
- The secret famous actors use to “speak with their eyes” (The easiest way to take your cocky comedy skills to the next level)
- 6 real-life examples of how to pass any conversational test she throws at youthe right way. She’ll be both attracted and impressed by your demeanor
- Ever had a woman give you nasty attitude BEFORE you even said anything to her? Here’s a trick that instantly drops her guard and forces her to respect you as someone who “gets it” (Possibly the best kept secret of the bar scene’s best)
- 11 powerful physical tricks that will boost your cocky comedy skills through the roof (It’s taken years to develop all of these, but you’ll be able to start using them TONIGHT)
- 2 ultra-powerful “attraction amplifiers” that turn regular, flirty conversation into foreplay … she’ll be so turned on that she’ll have to have you right then and there… and nothing will be able to stop her!
- 2 ways to smoothly and comfortably kiss her that eliminate all chance of rejection
- A way to continue the fun after “last call” that will make her feel totally comfortable about coming back to your place
- The important thing you must do when getting her phone number that lets her know you still have the power
- 3 crafty ways to get her number that have never NOT worked (AND will have her anxiously waiting for your call)
- The 7 words to say when she asks you for a cigarette that engage her in a conversation and ensure she’ll never forget you for the rest of her life (You’ll die laughing when you hear this…)
- The drink that will have women coming up to you all night just to find out what it is
- How to get personal invitations to the ultra-hot nightclubs and after-parties that every woman longs to go to
- How to walk right past the line and into the door of any nightclub you choose… while everyone else is stuck waiting (Every woman will want to show up with you when you know this…)
- A way to get you and your friends on the exclusive guest list of any nightclub you choose
- How to befriend the tough-looking guys at the door and never have to wait in line again!
- The 5 words you can say to any bartender that will get your drink upgraded to a “double”… at no extra cost to you
A MASTER Of Starting Conversations Spills His Guts
The next master you’ll learn from in this program is AMAZING at starting conversations with women.
Every time I talk with him I find myself taking notes… he seems to come up with one great thing after another.
The best part of his method is that it IMMEDIATELY lets a woman know that you are “in”… and puts you on her “hot list” right away.
Here are a few of the great tips he shared:
- How to stop a woman who’s walking through the bar (This is one of the HARDEST times to approach a woman… unless you do THIS…)
- A secret eye contact trick that piques her curiosity… and almost forces her to initiate a conversation with you
- The 3 biggest mistakes almost all guys make when approaching women (Your way to “cash in” on the wusses who don’t get it)
- A killer “anytime anywhere” ice breaker that says all the right things
- A surefire way to find out if she’s a person you want to know… without expensive dates or spending any money AT ALL
Some Say It’s Cheating… But It Works
I also brought in a guy who has mastered ways to trigger a woman’s “auto-pilot” attraction responses and make her want him FAST.
He’s become SO good at this that it’s almost “not fair”… at least that’s what other guys say when they see the amount and quality of the women this guy gets when he goes to the bar.
He’s no Brad Pitt, but he constantly steals women away from better looking men.
His specialty is approaching women who are in mixed groups of guys and girls… and what he shared is going to blow your mind.
Here’s a short preview of what you’ll learn from him:
- The secret of approaching and attracting women who are hanging out with other men
- A secret to eliciting a woman’s “auto pilot responses” that ensures EVERY approach you do will be successful
- The secret to turning a “bombed” approach into a successful conversation… no matter how bad you foul up
- How you can use the science of human behavior patterns to “sneak” your way into a conversation with a woman… even if she’s resistant at first
- How to let every woman in the bar know that YOU are the prize without saying a word
- The “Cockblock-Block” A simple trick that ensures her friends won’t steal her away
- Secrets of vocal projection that turn your voice into a mesmerizing forcecapable of dominating any room
- An easy way to keep another guy from moving in on your girl… even if you’ve only been talking to her for a few seconds
- A way to effortlessly pass ANY test she throws at you… even if you have no idea you are being tested
- The subtle body language trick that gets her to literally follow you around the club!
- How to intercept the secret codes women use to communicate with each other (When you do this you’ll ALWAYS know exactly what she’s thinking)
- Step-by-step strategies for handling girls that are out with their friends
Your Behind-The-Scenes Bar & Club “Cheat Sheet”…
To top it all off… I was fortunate to be joined by one very insightful WOMAN who has literally seen it all.
She’s extremely attractive… and she’s a bartender at one of the hippest bars in New York.
She ALSO happens to be an expert coach.
Long story short… she knows her stuff.
After you hear what she has to say, you’ll feel like you’ve stolen the other team’s “playbook”… she really held nothing back.
Here are a just a few of the shocking insights you’ll learn:
- What your eye contact REALLY says to a woman… and how to fine tune it to be your most powerful attraction weapon
- The 4 fashion secrets that will set you apart from 99% of the guys in the bar
- The body language secret that will have her thinking you’re a fabulous dancereven if you never set foot on the dance floor
- A “secret spot” in any city where women always outnumber the men
- A networking “weapon” that gives you an advantage with women before you meet them
- FACT: Women think differently — and usually less — of the guys they meet in bars… except when you do this…
- How and when to use chivalry so you come off as a gentlemen and not a wuss-bag
- 3 ways to start talking to a woman at the gym that won’t “weird her out”
- The one thing you must do differently if you’re looking for a serious relationship
- The big secret of the “phone game” – You’ll always know exactly when to call when you do this…
- Conversation secrets to turn any number or email into a date
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- A detailed track listing for quick access. Find and re-watch your favorite chapters easily so you get the most out of the program
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