Carlos Xuma – Power Social Skills

Description Of Power Social Skills

“Would You Like To Avoid People’s Games, Connect More Authentically With Others, And Get The Rewarding Social Life You’ve Always Wanted…?”

If you’ve ever wanted to TRANSFORM YOURSELF from shy and socially awkward into an amazing social leader, you’re about to learn information that will absolutely change your life…

What I did was create a home-study audio program where you can learn these Power Social Skills in your car, on the bus, or anywhere you like.

I just put the finishing touches on a personal development program called the “Power Social Skills – Social Dynamics” Program – where I will teach you how to handle or destroy any social games, avoid manipulation, identify the dangerous personalities out there, and get REAL & AUTHENTIC connection with just about anyone.

This Power Social Skills program is the very first of its kind, designed from the ground up to help you overcome any of your social limitations and pull you out into the world like never before.

This Power Social Skills program was created and structured to help you go from wherever you may be in your social abilities – from poor to average, or even good social ability – all the the way to COMPLETE SOCIAL MASTERY.

Unfortunately, most men and women NEVER learn more than a small fraction of the information that I’ve put together in this program – if they learn any of it at all.

What you’ll learn in Power Social Skills

Here Are The Specific Power Social Skills You’re Going to Learn in This Power Social Skills Program:

MODULE 1 – Social Manipulation, Influence, & Games

• Why you must unlock the hidden motivation behind social dynamics and social games – or you are doomed to repeat them over and over again…
• Recognition Hunger – what it is – how you’re secretly being manipulated by it all the time – And how to get to the core of this drive to de-fuse your potentially devastating social ticking time-bomb…
• How “stroking” is used in conversation to influence you and steer your decision making – and how to spot it before someone brainwashes you into their goals…
• The definition of what “social games” are, how they’re structured, and how to prepare yourself to win in any social dynamics situation…
• 4 Secret Reasons people play games with you – What are gamers trying to get from you?
• Understanding “The Prize” in each social situation – and how to identify it as quickly as possible so you don’t become the loser…
• The 7 Hidden Emotions that sell you, manipulate you, and influence you – how they work in almost every social situation…
• How to recognize when your built-in emotional triggers are being used, and how to put your “safety” on…
• The 7 Natural Inclinations of humans that pull us into social dynamics and social games – You’ll learn the shared weaknesses that drive us into other people’s schemes…
• The 3 Critical Questions to ask yourself to solve your manipulative dilemma – if you figure these out, no one can influence you against your will…
• The 2 covert forms of guilt that people use on you to get what they want, and how to avoid them before you fall victim to one of the most powerful manipulative tactics…
• The 2 Primary forms of mind control – and how they work on every person – even you…
• The 6 weapons of persuasive influence – and how people, companies, and the media use these on you EVERY SINGLE DAY
• How to use the stealth skill of “redefinition” to avoid being played by others…
• How to get favors granted whenever you want – by knowing the right way to ask for them…
• The 3 Secret Symbols of Authority that we look for when we decide to obey other people – and how you can be fooled into trusting the wrong authority…
• The Hard-to-Get Gambit – why it works on you – why you love having options – and why those options trip you up before you realize what is happening…
• How your mind secretly changes and twists reality to make decisions for you without your understanding or consent…
• The secret reason why you believe certain kinds of gossip more than others – and how this is used as one of the most powerful manipulative strategies…
• 49 Undisclosed Warning signs of potential mental, verbal, and physical abuse – so you can know if you’re in a relationship that will serve you or hurt you over the long term – and so you can figure out quickly whether to stay or GET OUT…
• AND MORE…

MODULE 2 – Quick Psychology

• The 6-step Proven & Practical Method to develop Basic Social Skills – so that you can feel confident in any social situation and understand all the complicated games that are going on in every conversation…
• How to demonstrate good listening ability – and the body language of strong social skills that you can use to impress others, establish strong rapport and connection with them, and get people feeling a sense of friendship with you…
• The 5 Sources of Frustration in life and how we respond to them with social games…
• The 2 Types of Coping and the 9 Forms of Defense Mechanisms that we instinctually use to create social games – and how you can cut these reactions off in others so that you don’t have to get into manipulation…
• How we resolve our internal conflicts, and how other people secretly use this knowledge to game us into doing what they want…
• Learn how to understand problem personalities and how they strain our relationships – with friends, family, and especially with our intimate relationships…
• How we unknowingly self-deceive and create games inside ourselves – How to identify the different kinds, and why you will probably never spot them on your own…
• The 5 Secret Inner Games you MUST know and understand to avoid being gamed by other people…
• The 3 areas of your life you must be on your guard for self-deception so you don’t trick yourself into problems with other people…
• The 3 Critical Questions you must ask yourself to determine if you’re poisoning your ability to connect with others…
• The ONE hidden inner game that people play that can lead to illness and suffering if it isn’t controlled – HINT: Everyone does this!
• The 2 Covert Forms of Social Aggression and how you can recognize the one form that sneaks by most peoples defenses and radar…
• The Selective Inattention Game – how the game player passes right by the rules to get what they want from you…
• The 3 Proven Power Strategies that covert aggressors use on you and how they work to confuse you and further their agenda…
• How to handle extreme game-playing – emotional or verbal abuse that can threaten you mentally AND physically…
• How to respond and handle any unhealthy verbal abuse to de-fuse the confrontation, shut down the game that’s being played, and keep yourself emotionally and physically SAFE…
• The 2 Zones where you will likely experience problems from emotional mistreatment and games – how to spot them and how to avoid the problems in advance…
• The Hidden Penalties of handling the psychological pressure of an abusive relationship – how these high-stress situations take their toll on you mentally and physically…
• Where to apply your focus to keep your self-esteem healthy and not let other people drag your self-confidence down into the dirt…
• The 12 Secret Steps to dealing with abusive situations so you’re not taken advantage of – and you don’t wind up in an unhealthy spiral of co-dependence and cooperative abuse…
• AND MORE…

MODULE 3 – Verbal & Emotional Abuse – Bullies

• The Cloaked Emotional Abuse Tactics you must recognize or you risk creating dysfunctional relationships…
• How to Find the Aggression Threshold – how people measure you up to see if you will take what they dish out…
• How an Abuser stays out of sight and undiscovered – How they get into your life and under your skin without detection – and how you will spot their stealth tactics from now on…
• The Concealed Helpless Defense an emotional abuser will use to get out of any trouble if they’re spotted, and how you can hold them accountable…
• Undermining relationships – The Animosity Tactic – how it works to erode the quality of your bond with others…
• The Vicious Gossip strategy – and how it works to not only secretly undermine your social network,but destroy your career…!
• The 7 Hidden Methods your social enemies use to gather dirt on you and learn what they need to cause you pain…
• The strongest way to make a vicious rumor stick – The Humorous Payoff method that keeps you from defending yourself… This one is deadly and impossible to deal with unless you know their game…
• The 3 Secret Tactics emotional abusers use to avoid blame and escape detection…
• The reactions that you must not show in response to a social abuser game…
• The “Helping” game disguise for playing and manipulation – how people win their games and get what they want by being the “good guy…”
• Emotional manipulation in relationships – how your partner can use insecurity, threats, and fear to control you…
• The healthy responses to games and how to use them to resolve situations quickly and effectively… and not sink to their level…
• The Key Signal Words to watch for from emotional abusers…
• How people abuse you with “logic” – especially in relationships – and how to keep a sane footing when you get pulled into an argument like this…
• The most unhealthy state for the human mind you MUST avoid to create solid social skills…
• How to identify verbal assault and how to handle it – from anyone – so that you come out on top…
• The incongruous signals of a verbal abuser – how you can be confused and confabulated by these people…
• The 6 Secret Forms of Verbal Abuse – How they sabotage relationships, destroy connection, divert and destroy communication, and play with your self-esteem…
• The 4 Signs of Bullies – how to know if you’re being pushed around by a strong personality – and how to push back…!
• The 4 Primary Types of Bullies – and how to recognize them and deal with each of their style of games…
• How to recognize game players and abusers ulterior motives on the job so that your career doesn’t suffer from their games…
• The 7 Bully Tactics you must watch out for – and how to recognize them…
• AND MORE…

MODULE 4 – Manipulative People

• How to recognize where assertive behavior becomes abusive behavior…
• How manipulators keep us on the defense so that we can never get out of their games…
• How to recognize an aggressive agenda from the innocent ones so you don’t assume the worst of good people…
• The difference between character and personality and what you should recognize about each so that you’re not fooled by first impressions… and you know who to trust…
• What reaction the manipulator needs from you to play their games – and how to avoid it so that you don’t get caught up in their hidden gambits…
• What a “neurotic” really is and how to recognize what they are trying to get from you…
• The 6 Characteristics of Neurotics – how to recognize them – and how to avoid mistaking them for “character disorders…”
• The 7 Types of problematic thinking and how we use it to play social games with people…
• The 5 types of Aggressive Personalities – How to detect them and tell them apart – and how to handle them when you run into them – on the job, at home, or anywhere you go…
• The Secret 2 Step Process that social manipulators use to avoid being caught – and pin the blame on others…
• The investment principle that keeps you in unhealthy relationships FAR longer than you should… and if you learn this one rule, you’ll save yourself years of pain in sick relationships…
• What you don’t know about “co-dependency” and the unknown facts you NEED to know that everyone else doesn’t…
• The 2 PRIMARY Relationship Personality Types – How this affects every romance you have – and which one of them are you?
• How you become secretly “addicted” to people in your life – especially the person you may be romantically involved with…
• Why we get defensive and play defensive games – and how to avoid this trap in conversation and arguments…
• The “Good” type of Guilt, and how you can recognize it from the bad…
• The 14 Hidden Games and Tactics of the social manipulator – how to distinguish them and destroy them…
• The 5 Skills to guard yourself against victimization behaviors from anyone you may meet…
• The 9 Tools of Personal Empowerment you must use to handle social manipulators and game players to ensure that you end things on a positive note…
• The 4 Endings of ALL game types – and which outcome you must pursue at all costs…
• AND MORE…

MODULE 5 – Mind Control & Emotional Vampires

• What NLP – (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) is about and how it works in social interactions…
• How marketers and stores influence you to buy more products and spend more money with them every time you shop…
• How you’ve already been “programmed” to respond and react to others and their social games – and you aren’t even aware of these secret “buttons…”
• How to elicit someone’s Hidden Values – the questioning process to find out what people are looking for, and how you can create that connection with them…
• How people manipulate you with your fear of loss… and how to combat this so that you come from a place of abundance in mind and attitude…
• The I-You Shift and how this secret technique is used to change your emotions and guide your experience…
• The 7 Human Needs we all share that other people use to manipulate us – but you can use to connect you to other people more effectively…
• AND MORE…

MODULE 6 – Emotional Vampires – Part II

• The Game of Drain – how people sap you of your happiness, your energy, and your will – and how to prevent it from happening to you…
• How to recognize a personality disorder when you encounter one in your friends, family, or romantic partner, and what you can do about it…
• The 5 Special Categories of emotional vampires – If you can recognize these, you will never be maneuvered by them again…
• The simple mistakes people make when they try to classify a personality problem – and how you can avoid it and figure people out faster…
• The 3 Essential Attitudes for mentally healthy and mature adults – the ones to look for in others, and the ones to develop in yourself…
• How to spot an emotional drainer and stop them before they get to you…
• Ever meet someone that feels entitled to easy success? Ever meet someone who demands everything yesterday? Do you know someone who throws a tantrum when they don’t get their own way? Learn how to handle these situations when they happen to you – because they WILL…
• The 4 Hidden Warning Signs of mental manipulation and game playing that you must notice…
• Learn the 4 Rules of Manipulation – and how you can avoid their (usually) unavoidable outcome…
• The Clustering Strategy for recognizing and identifying the social game players…
• The Warning Signs to identify the 5 Emotional Drainers – Key traits of these basic personality types that you must know to handle conversations and social situations without risk…
• The Grooming Process – how people slowly change you over time – and how to stop them from using this insidious method on you…
• Why men don’t understand women – and how to finally “get it” when it comes to the opposite sex…
• The undisclosed social game that is also the world’s most powerful aphrodisiac – how we drive up attraction with the most unhealthy of games…
• How exciting people keep cast their spell on us…
• The 7 Basic Patterns of Persuasion – How to know when someone is trying to change your mind or control you – learn the blueprint patterns…
• The 10 Secret Strategies to manage emotional vampires and avoid being put under the control of a social game player…
• The Bully Rule that you were taught that is the absolute WRONG thing to do…
• How to use the Pattern Interrupt to break the bully’s game – every time…
• The essential technique to handle a high-emotion situation without losing your cool – or losing the game!
• Hidden verbal strategies for managing the game player and winning…
• The vital step of de-fusing game playing that you must use – or you risk losing more than just the game!
• The state of mind you must manage to function as a mature adult…
• The type of emotional drainer that is the life of the party – and how you might miss their influence on you until it’s too late…
• The “Ham” Game – and how this vampire stirs up trouble on the job with you…
• The one time you must NOT try to handle a social game…
• The way to use redirection to your advantage and manage an emotional drainer…
• How to win the “crying game…”
• How to spot a “passive tantrum” when it happens and avoid the damaging after-effects…
• Secondary Game – How to spot when someone hides a game WITHIN a game – this one is tricky and deadly…
• The positive traits of the worst personalities so you don’t get fooled again…
• The most dangerous self-deception you will make about other people’s intentions – and how you can avoid it from ever happening in the first place…
• The 3 Secret Personality Qualities that will give you success in life…
• The most lethal kind of relationship to get involved in – and if you’re with one of these personality types – watch out!
• The emotional control game of IMPLOSION – how it works, and how to stay out of the damage path
• The type of personality type that is the easiest to manipulate – is it you?
• The Fast-seduction Trap – How we’re drawn into fast and emotionally unhealthy relationships…
• The “Good Deed” you must never try to do for someone with problems – And why it’s lethal to YOU…
• The Disguised Seductive Personalities and why we are drawn in to them…
• The personality types that are most creative and influential…
• The 4 steps in “credit checking” crazy ideas to see if they’re for real or a waste of time
• The types of ideas you must beware of at all costs…
• The most suspicious of all personality types – and what to watch out for if you’re in a relationship with them…
• Why you run into trust issues in your relationships – and other warning signals to watch out for…
• The 6 Rules of Engagement for all dysfunctional personality games…
• The 3 Layers of Personality classification – figure out what drives your friends and family – and you!
• The 8 Warning signs of a draining personality that you must watch for
• How a manipulator will inoculate you and trick you
• The Confusion Strategy that game players and manipulators use to draw you into helping them
• AND MORE…

MODULE 7 – Emotional Blackmail

• The FOG of the manipulator – how people twist your emotions to get you to help them…
• 9 Secret Manipulation Indicators – if you see one or more of these signs – watch out!
• 4 Hidden Fears of the Blackmailer -Why they do what they do – and how you can help them stop…
• 6 Indicators to watch for in emotional blackmail situations…
• The unknown relationship blackmail games you must avoid to have healthy connections with your friends and family…
• The Simple 4 step solution to deal with any emotional blackmail games so you don’t get caught up in their games…
• The 4 Secret Signs that someone is working with you and will solve the situation – and the 4 Signs that you’re wasting your time…
• The 4 Types of Emotional Blackmailers and the things they say that give them away…
• How to remove guilt as a manipulating tool that people can use to influence you…
• The power of the Spin Doctor and how they twist your reality around you…
• The hidden social dynamic that you help to create – without even knowing you’re doing this!
• Hot-Button Theory and how you are manipulated by these automatic mechanisms even when you know about them…
• How emotional game players “read” you and your personality to figure out where to play games…
• Your 5 Vulnerable Emotional Zones – and how others use them for games and to get what they want…
• How you create the emotional blackmail situations that spiral out of control..
• Believe it or not, there’s a Healthy Side to Emotional Blackmail – and you need to know how to use it for quality social interactions…
• The 8 Test Questions to discover if you have the skills to resist emotional games and blackmail…
• “C&D”- The 2 Secret Elements that make you unstable and vulnerable to manipulators…
• How you undermine your integrity without even knowing it – and how to stop…
• How to recognize when you’re living “under the influence” – of an emotional blackmailer!
• The 2 Proven Steps you can use that leave Emotional Blackmailers dead in their tracks
• The False Self-Help Tip that you probably know about and use – but DOESN’T WORK… and how to fix it…
• The 3 Step Process to handle all Emotional Game Situations…
• What to say to evade the pressure of an emotional demand from someone in your family…
• The Dangerous Emotional Trigger of all social pressure situations…
• Why you don’t react the right way to other people’s games – and how you are pushed into dysfunctional reactions…
• 8 Rules for Engagement for an Emotional Blackmailer – know the rules of their battles and you can both win…
• AND MORE…

MODULE 8 – The Controller Personality

• The Secret Vital Strategy for winning emotional confrontations to defuse and avoid blowups…
• The Limp Effect – how to learn the 4 Hidden Warning signals that you are dealing with a controlling personality…
• The difference between opinionated people and controllers – how to tell them apart so you don’t make a social mistake…
• The 3 Harmful Behaviors that controllers use – and the beliefs that drive them…
• How Boundary Issues affect our social interactions – and how boundaries really work in the real world…
• The 4 Primary Functions that connect you to your sense of “self” – and how you disconnect from yourself to become helpless…
• Outside-in learning that reverses your confidence and belief in yourself – and how it works…
• How you become disconnected from yourself and lose your certainty about your world and your choices…
• The 11 Signs of Separation that threaten the controller – and how they keep you healthy…
• The Deadly game of Confabulation – how you create problems in your life and hold yourself back from achievment – the deadliest self-confidence game of all…
• How controllers influence other people to join them and help them in their dangerous games…
• Defining Statements – what they are, how they sound, and how to respond to them…
• The 6 Proven Power Strategies to evade the controller – and how you break free of their magic spell…
• Learn your strongest ally and best of self-defense against all controllers and manipulators…
• AND MORE…

MODULE 9 – Authentic Connection – Victimization

• Why do we play social games? The underlying ultimate source and reason we play social games
• How to determine how genuine your connection with someone else really is so you can create lasting trust and relationships
• The Four Get & Protect Behaviors you use to keep yourself ‘safe’ – but you really are using to ruin your attractiveness to other people
• How people use their body language to play games
• The Battery Concept – How fulfilled you feel and how capable you are of connection is determined by this one crucial factor
• How to get a million dollars of emotional money in the bank so that you can be completely comfortable in any social situation
• How to make the miraculous change from Irritation to Calm Acceptance in just 60 seconds
• The 2 behaviors that irritate you about other people and block your ability to control and defuse social problems
• Learn the emotional “hunger” of the victim and how to stop them from consuming YOU!
• The emotional trigger that turns people from friendly to selfish in a heartbeat
• The 5 Common beliefs of the Victim
• The “Follow the Chain” Exercise to get past your limiting pain and solve all your own games
• The True nature of Addiction and how victims are really just addicts
• The 5 Ways to spot and identify victims in your life and workplace
• The 8 Rules of engagement with victims
• AND MORE…

MODULE 10 – Social Games I

• The 5-Step method to handle any social game you encounter…
• How to avoid victimizing yourself…
• The 21 Question Test to find out where you might be victimized in your life by your family, job, authority, organizations – and it is probably happening right now…
• How to summon the courage you need in a group situation to stand up for yourself…
• The 5 Secret Strategies to operate from personal power in your life and avoid being pulled into games…
• How predators relate to emotional games and how they learn to read us and find our hidding hot-buttons…
• Learn the 4 Hidden Intentions that drive social games – who uses them – and when you learn them you’ll be able to manage any social conflict or tension situation…
• The 7 Types of Games and Who Plays them…
• And More Games Exposed … see the list below…

MODULE 11 – Social Games II

• The different types of parents you may have had – and how you learned their tricky social games…
• How to recognize the hidden signs of a good liar and spot their games they use to evade detection…
• How to spot a lie in process – and how to question a liar to expose it…
• What NOT to do if you think you’re being lied to – and this is the big mistake that most people make without realizing what they’re doing…
• The 7 Secret Manipulators that game players use to influence you…
• How to recognize the 3 kinds of social teasing – and which one is most harmful to you…
• The Apology Game: How to tell a GENUINE apology from the one that’s a game…
• The Alone Dilemma – When you understand this principle it will set you free from manipulation in relationships…
• How you are robbed of your identity, your confidence, your happiness, and your self-esteem by this self-imposed game…
• The smoke screen a social gamer uses to keep the focus off their behavior and keep you in the victim role…
• The clever things people say to manipulate you by comparison games… and how to uncover them…
• How your managers on the job manipulate you with “group logic”…
• The Power Skill of Quiet Effectiveness – and how we’re manipulated by our own accomplishments
• Why you can never “demand” fair treatment – and what you need to do instead to get what you want from others…
• The Immediate Recognition strategy to short-circuit any game or emotional reaction…
• And More Games Exposed … see the list below…

MODULE 12 – Social Games III

• The killer technique to destroy any game and turn the game player around to your side…
• How victims play the Game of Black & White…
• The “Un-Winnable” terrain you must never explore with the game player…
• And More Games Exposed … see the list below…

MODULE 13 – Social Games IV

• How to tell if you’re afraid of success – or failure… and how to get past this stumbling block in your life…
• 5 Secret Reasons you shy away from risk in your life and how to stop running…
• Why people flake out on their plans with you for no reason – and how to protect yourself so that you’re not the one being hurt by their inconsideration…
• What to do when you’re pulled into a forced choice so that you don’t end up making a mistake you’ll wind up regretting…
• How to handle people when they try to play with you using teasing and mocking ploys…
• How to handle people that go crazy on you – how to handle the Grenade Launcher…
• More Games Exposed… see the list below…

MODULE 14 – Social Games V

• The Emotional Limbo Game – How we get caught up in drama and emotional games by chasing our feelings – And the Proven 4 Step Process for breaking free of any emotional paralysis…
• Strategies for handling games without reprisal, rejection, or losing friendships along the way…
• More Games Exposed … see the list below…

MODULE 15 – Sales Tricks – Conversational Strategies

• How to spot the most underhanded and devious of all psychological games… and never fall for them…
• How stores and marketers use hidden psychological games to get you to spend your money with them…
  Including: The Hopscotch, the Boomerang, irrational pricing, the Jumble, the Mirror Effect, the Zones, the Tile Trick, the “Eye Level” trick, and more…
• How grocery stores organize their products to get you to buy more…
• The colors that make you buy more…
• How advertisers secretly manipulate what you see to their advantage…
• How companies herd and steer you to buy more than you intend to when you’re in their stores…
• The Unbelievable “Blockbuster” Trick that gets you to rent bad movies and make bad choices…
• The Tricks of Casino Psychology – How the casinos use the latest psychological tricks on you – and how they manipulate your senses to get your money…
  Including: The Funnel of Control, The Loose Slots ploy, and how these techniques are even used in retail stores!
• Learn the Secret Tactics car salesmen use to play games with you…
• The Bait & Switch – how unscrupulous stores get you to pay more…
• The Hidden “Wear You Down” Game – how it works to trick you into buying – and why you won’t walk away from them…
• The Extended Warranty Game – How it works for you – or against you…
• The Add-up Mistake Game – How sales people get you to agree and buy more than you want…
• How car dealers use NLP to slip under your radar…
• The Secret 7 Steps of Car Sales – How they work in a progression to get your money and in that car…
• How to Combat the Negative Strategies with “White Hat” Social Skills…
• 3 Proven Conversational Strategies – The essential tools you must have for authentic social interactions…
• How men and women work against each other for their needs to get connection…
• How to qualify your date to screen out the bad candidates – without the games…
• The red flags to watch for in your social dynamics that tell you when to pay attention – something is not right!
• How to handle a conversation when the other person is reluctant, resistant, or downright disrespectful… and how to come out with your own dignity intact…
• Carlos’ recommended books and resources for case studies and continued learning about social game playing…
• AND MORE…

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