Biblical Man – How to Find a Godly Woman (If You’re Actually Serious)

You’re in your 20s and you want a godly woman.

Good.

Now stop doing what every other Christian guy is doing, because that’s how you end up 35, bitter, and alone.

Let me guess your current strategy:

You’re on Christian Mingle hoping Jesus will algorithm you a wife. You’re sitting in the back row at church waiting for Ruth to notice you. You’re reading another book about biblical relationships while you’re still living in your mom’s basement working part-time.

Or maybe you’re at singles groups where damaged women in their late 30s are “waiting on God” while screening out every man who approaches them.

Or you’re asking God to “bring her to you” while you do nothing to become the kind of man a godly woman would want.

None of this works.

You know how I know?

Because the guys doing this are the same ones DMing me at 32 asking why they’re still single.

THE HARD TRUTH

The problem isn’t that there are no godly women.

The problem isn’t that all the good ones are taken.

The problem isn’t that God is making you wait for “His timing.”

The problem is you’re following a playbook that doesn’t work.

Modern Christian dating culture has turned marriage into a passive waiting game where men abdicate leadership and women are told to “focus on themselves” until their biological clock runs out.

Nobody wins.

But the guys who do win? They’re not playing by these rules.

They’re following an older, harder, better path.

That’s what this guide gives you.

WHAT YOU’LL GET

This isn’t another “pray about it and follow your peace” guide.

This is a tactical framework for becoming the kind of man a godly woman wants to marry, finding her, and pursuing her with biblical intention.

Inside this 30-page guide, you’ll get:

The 5-Step Framework for Finding a Godly Wife

• Step 1: Become the Man First – Stop looking for a wife until you’re ready to be a husband (includes the 90-Day Readiness Test)
• Step 2: Go Where Godly Women Actually Are – Where they’re NOT (apps, bars, mega-churches) and where they ARE (real churches, service ministries, godly families)
• Step 3: Talk to Her Father First – The lost art of asking permission (includes exact script for approaching her father)
• Step 4: Pursue With Intention – How to court with purpose, not casual modern dating (includes rules, red flags, and how to end it if she’s not the one)
• Step 5: Marry Her Young – Why waiting until you’re “established” keeps you single (and how to marry young without being stupid)

WHO THIS IS FOR

This guide is built for Christian men who:

• Actually want to get married – Not just date forever
• Want a biblical marriage – Not a 50/50 roommate situation
• Are willing to do hard work – Become a man first, then find a wife
• Want the truth – Not comfortable lies that keep you stuck
• Are tired of modern dating advice – That doesn’t work
• Are in their 20s or early 30s – And don’t want to waste another year

WHO THIS IS NOT FOR

This guide is not for:

• Men who want to “play the field”
• Men looking for shortcuts or hacks
• Men who want women to chase them
• Men who aren’t ready to lead
• Men who want egalitarian marriage advice

If you’re looking for soft, modern, “the woman of your dreams will find you when you stop looking” nonsense, this isn’t for you.

But if you’re serious about building a biblical marriage with a godly woman?

This is exactly what you need.

WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT

Most Christian relationship advice sounds like this:

“Just focus on your relationship with God and He’ll bring the right woman at the right time. Pray about it. Wait for peace. Trust His timing.”

That’s not wrong. But it’s incomplete.

Because prayer without action is just hoping God does the work you’re supposed to do.

Scripture shows us men who prayed AND acted with clarity, speed, and conviction.

This guide gives you the biblical framework they used.

You’ll learn:

• How to become marriage-ready before you start looking (most guys skip this)
• Where godly women actually are (not on dating apps)
• How to honor her father and pursue with intention (not casual dating)
• Why you should marry young and how to do it without being foolish
• The exact 30-day action plan to build your foundation

This isn’t theory. It’s tactical.

Built on Scripture. Tested by time. Proven by men who have the marriages you want.

WHAT’S INSIDE – FULL BREAKDOWN

INTRODUCTION: Why You’re Still Single

The hard truth about why modern Christian dating advice keeps you stuck

SECTION 1: What Doesn’t Work (And Why)

• Lie #1: “God Will Bring Her to You”
• Lie #2: “There Are No Good Women Left”
• Lie #3: “You Need to Be Financially Established First”
• Lie #4: “Just Be Yourself”
• Lie #5: “Online Dating Is Fine for Christians”

SECTION 2: The Five-Step Framework

STEP 1: Become the Man First (8 pages)

• What “ready” actually means (financially, spiritually, physically, practically)
• The 90-Day Readiness Test (8 questions)
• Action items for getting your life in order
• Why godly women don’t want projects

STEP 2: Go Where Godly Women Actually Are (6 pages)

• Where they’re NOT (and why you’re wasting time)
• Where they ARE (real churches, service, godly families)
• The 6-month strategy for positioning yourself
• How to become known as a man of character

STEP 3: Talk to Her Father First (5 pages)

• Why this matters (biblical and practical reasons)
• The lost art of asking permission
• Exact script for requesting the meeting
• What to do if she doesn’t have a father
• The questions he’ll ask (and how to answer)

STEP 4: Pursue With Intention (6 pages)

• What “intentional pursuit” means (courting vs. dating)
• The 4 rules of biblical courtship
• What to look for (character, faith, service, family)
• Red flags that mean you walk away immediately
• How to end it if she’s not the one

STEP 5: Marry Her Young (5 pages)

• Why the “wait until you’re established” advice is killing marriages
• The benefits of marrying young (20s, not 30s)
• How to do it without being financially stupid
• The foundation you need before marriage
• Ideal timeline from meeting to marriage (12-18 months)

SECTION 3: The Binary Choice

• Path 1: Keep doing what you’re doing (stay single)
• Path 2: Follow this framework (build a biblical marriage)
• What most guys will do (and why they’ll fail)

SECTION 4: 30-Day Action Plan

• Days 1-7: Self-Assessment (financial, spiritual, physical, life skills, church audit)
• Days 8-30: Build the Foundation (finances, discipline, body, skills)
• Months 2-6: Prove Yourself (find right church, become known, serve, observe)
• Months 7-12: Pursue With Intention (get permission, court, discern, propose or end)

SECTION 5: Next Steps

• Three choices you have right now
• Resources for going deeper (The Absalom Protocol, The Vault)
• Final word: Do the work

The Investment

$27

That’s less than:

• One month of dating app subscriptions
• Three therapy sessions where you talk in circles
• The cost of another wasted year being single

For the price of two mediocre dates, you get:

• A 30-page tactical manual
• A 5-step biblical framework
• The 90-Day Readiness Test
• Red flags checklist
• 30-day action plan with week-by-week steps
• Lifetime access (no subscriptions, no upsells)

One-time payment. Instant download. Yours forever.

About The Author

I’m Adam.

I write at The Biblical Man

I teach men how to stop being soft, stop compromising Scripture, and start leading with biblical conviction.

I’m not a pastor. I’m not a therapist. I’m a man who learned the hard way that modern Christian dating advice is designed to keep you passive and single.

This guide is built on Scripture, tested by time, and proven by men who actually have strong biblical marriages.

It’s the system I wish someone had given me at 22.

Now it’s yours.

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